Do They Like You? Look For THESE Signals In Their TEXTS!
#1 They are quick to reply. If you don’t have to wait more than a few minutes for a reply from them, then they like you. As for men, most guys—at least most of them in my own experience—aren’t as big into texting as girls are. So, if he makes an effort to be by his phone, it’s because he wants to talk to you.
#2 The responses are lengthy. When you get texts from that person, are they short and simple? Or are they long and filled with information to keep a conversation going? If they’re short, they are probably not into you. BUT, if they send you a long text message it’s because they want to talk to you about the topic--ANY topic for that matter.
#3 They ask personal questions. If you notice that they have been asking deeper and more personal questions about who you are as a person, the interest is definitely there. They might ask about your Christmas holiday traditions, or your favorite place(s) to get away. And if they are asking about your life goals, it’s because he or she wants to know if you two are in sync.
#4 They text you first thing in the morning. If you wake up to a “good morning” text from them, then it’s almost certain they like you. And ladies notice this: guys don’t bother with good morning texts unless they have a very good reason to do so—which is to get you to like them, too.
#5 They text you before they go to sleep. Just like the good morning text, if you haven’t been talking to them much during the day, but they still manage to send you a “goodnight” text before you both drift off to sleep, that’s an obvious sign.
#6 They pour on the compliments in their texts. What to look for: they call you funny, cute, or smart. They point out your honesty and integrity, or give you their observation about you having a kind heart. These are all compliments out to win your approval. If you’re looking right past the words, then you could be misreading their obvious feelings.
#7 Ladies (particularly), be sure to notice the flirty emojis. If he’s sending wink emojis, heart eyes, or even the heart emoji in general, then he likes you. By sending emojis they are attempting to be obvious about the fact that they like you without actually saying so. And this part is important to remember…While women use emojis quite often, guys aren’t as big on using them just to get a point across… UNLESS they like you.
#8 You never get a double text—unless they forgot to add something. You know how it’s advised that you should not send multiple unanswered texts? If you only get one text at a time and they patiently wait for your response, then they like you. They do this in a way where you won’t perceive them as being needy or annoying.
#9 They initiate the texting conversations. This show they are seeking you out, and THAT’S because they like you. This is especially true for men. Most guys just don’t go around texting someone first that they don’t want to talk to.
#10 They find random things to talk about. Do they go off on a random rant whenever the conversation seems to be trailing off? This is a big sign they are interested in you; purely based on the fact they do not want the conversation die.
#11 They ask about your day. They want to know how work is going or what you’re up to, or if you have any fun plans for the weekend. This clearly shows they are engaged in YOUR feelings about work and life in general.
#12 He or she talks about themselves. Now, a lot of people may get the wrong idea by this. Some people would ask how could they possibly care about YOU? It’s very simple. They are selling themselves as a potential relationship partner. If they mention hobbies, likes/dislikes, and goals, they're basically telling you who they are, and letting you decide if you like them. Openness and vulnerability are on display because they really like you.
#13 They text you about hanging out. They say stuff like, “if I was there…” or “I would like to see that sometime…” If they mention wanting to hang out with you, they are placing the idea of the two of you together in your mind because it’s already in theirs.
#14 They text you about their *minor* problems. (Nothing too major) Let’s say they’re having trouble at work or in school. If they are going to you for support or advice, then they like you. They value your opinion and thoughts on this situation, and are comfortable enough to let you see their more vulnerable side.
#15 They come right out and SAY they like you. This is an obvious one. This is important, particularly with women,who may not take those words seriously, because it was “just a text.” Seeing something like “I like you, you’re funny,” could be overlooked. They may be expressing real interest, but they don’t want to scare you off. Hey, you gotta start somewhere, right?