When I first met my wife Melanie, she was single (again) for 10 years. Most single guys - as I understood- were intimated by her because she was so strong and independent. Mel owned two small businesses, fixed up an historic house herself, and had more power tools than most men have. At 6 foot tall and gorgeous, she got a lot of attention. Me included. Yet, I was still unsure about a long term future with her. Just being real here...her strength seemed greater than my own. Deep down, I was a bit fearful about that, but I didn't need to be.
Melanie was different. She spoke kinda loud and laughed even louder. I once shared my uncertainty with Jodi from Murphy Sam and Jodi off the air, and I told her about Melanie being very sweet, but she was quirky. Jodi shot back—so are you Scotty. Wow, I got wisdom in less than 5 seconds. I found out more...a lot more. Listen and hear what many men miss.